I can’t say that I’m the best guy to write about eye contact.  Few people believe this about me but I’m shy.  I think I inherited this trait from my Dad.  He wasn’t much of a talker.  I’m even going so far as to say that my mother probably had to konk him over the head to get her first kiss.  After all, he was an orphan at a very young age and just didn’t have a role model in this category.  For sure, he was a caring and loving guy … willing to do all that he had to provide for his family.  As long as it didn’t require … eye contact.